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I never knew I could write until someone told me.\u00a0 It’s true, I’d actually never even thought about it.\u00a0 I often wonder where I would be and what I would be doing had that one person kept his opinion to himself, never given me his opinion and encouraged me to pursue a career in writing.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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It’s so important to tell someone “good job” or ” I loved it” or “you are great at”.\u00a0 Children everyday grow up with no self-esteem and then we wonder why they have\u00a0a hard time and lack the skills necessary to achieve success.<\/p>\n

When was the last time you took time to tell someone they were doing something right?\u00a0 The more time I spend on this sometimes impersonal internet that we all love so much, the more I realize how damaging our time here can be.\u00a0 It’s so easy to hide behind a made-up user name and bash everyone who dares enter your personal cyber-space.<\/p>\n

Where did constructive criticism go? How did snarky, rude and bitter take the place of manners?<\/p>\n

One thing that I would like all of you to know, whether you’re one of my readers or not, I value you.\u00a0 You’re special. Each of you play a small role in my life now because our paths have crossed and that’s just how I am.<\/p>\n

Whether you read to add a special pleasure to your life or you write because you can’t not write, we share a love of books and I’m happy you are here.<\/p>\n

Since this has been such a rambling post, I’ll try to bring it all together now.\u00a0 I’d like to challenge each of you to reach out to someone whether it be a new reader or a new author that you’ve just cyber-met. Find out something about them and then lift them up. Today, I’d like to take the opportunity to introduce you to an interesting literary project I was made aware of. The link is below.\u00a0 Ten writers have produced a novel blending each of their talents into one very interesting work of fiction entitled FOSTERING GUILT.\u00a0 When I read a little background on the project it reminded me of the teacher who took the time to encourage me. I hope you’ll take a look and then come back and share with us who found to lift up today.\u00a0 I promise that everyone will come out a winner and be blessed for it.<\/p>\n

http:\/\/kclcreativewriting.co.uk\/2011\/08\/fostering-guilt\/<\/a><\/p>\n

Let’s encourage some real DAYDREAMING today and help someone else get one step closer to making their dreams a reality!
Tammie<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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